3 Love Letters That Will Definitely Get Your Ex Back
Getting your ex back is not an easy task, especially when you seriously screwed up. Whether you’ve grown apart or parted ways for some other reason, there are many times when a person decides that they want to get back their ex.
If you find yourself in that situation, try these letters.
It is not essential for you to be the best writer to write a compelling, persuasive, and heartfelt letter. Allow your emotions to guide you, we have the following tips below to help you with this:
- Write from your heart and to connect with your ex, you don’t need to over-embellish your letter to make it look good.
- You are writing this letter to express your true feelings so don’t fabricate false truths.
Decide What You Want the Outcome to Be
- Do you want to finally admit you’re in love?
- Do you want to apologize?
- Do you want to propose to your ex?
Depending on the answers to these questions, you then decide on the content of a romantic letter.
Know Your Ex
- No one understands your partner better than you
- Bring up some of your memories and inside jokes
- Consider your personality and your partner’s
- Don’t spend too much time pondering, just get down to business
- Jot down what comes in your mind and then proofread
Letter Template 1 | Get Back Your Ex Even If It’s Been A While
Dear [Insert Name],
I know it has been some time since we spoke, but I cannot get you off my mind no matter how hard I try. They say time heals everything, but I know now that I will ever be able to replace you in my heart. I am hoping that, with this letter, we’ll find a way to reconnect and reconsider our life together. I would greatly appreciate the chance to have an open conversation with you about what happened.
Please give me a call when you get the chance. I truly look forward to hearing your voice again.
[Insert Your Name]
This letter is short and sweet. It’s a great jumping off point regardless of why you broke up, and it’s a nice way to reach back out, even if it has been awhile since you spoke to your ex. Get more specific as necessary.
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Letter Template 2 | Get Back Your Ex Even If You’ve Grown Apart
I cannot stop thinking about the good times we used to have together. For so long, simply being in your company brought a smile to my face. Since we’ve broken up, I have spent far too much of my time consumed by memories of us. I am continuously recounting all of the wonderful memories we’ve shared, and as the days pass by, I have realized more and more that I can’t see a future for myself without you.
I am so disappointed that we grew apart and ultimately aren’t together anymore. My heart cannot bear the thought of not being with you, and I deeply wish to give us another chance. I’d like to talk to you again, when you have the time. Please reach out to me.
[Insert Your Name]
This love letter uses emotional, well-thought-out words to help Sally realize just how much Dale misses her and how much she still means to him.
In your letter, you can go into detail about some of your fondest memories of your ex to help bring those times to life for them, too.
This will get them thinking about the highs of your relationship, and may be just the reminder they need to reach back out to you again.
Letter Template 3 | Get Back Your Ex When You Made a Mistake
Dear [Insert Name],
For these past few weeks, I have done nothing but think of you. I hope you are doing okay. With each day, I regret the decisions I made more and more. I continuously replay my actions in my head, wishing I could go back and do things differently. I cannot get you out of my mind and I wholeheartedly believe I will never fall out of love with you. You are unlike any girl I have ever known, and it pains me that we are no longer together.
I understand that you may need time. I was in the wrong and you did not deserve what I did to you, but I’m writing to you today to ask for the opportunity to have an open conversation with you. I cannot imagine my life without you, and the longer we spend apart, the more I yearn for your company. Please give me the chance to talk to you again. I’m waiting anxiously to hear back…
This letter helps you get back in touch with your ex after you broke up because of a mistake you made. If necessary, you may add an apology, although you don’t want to waste the letter rehashing what made you break up.
Instead, try to bring in positive memories of the good times you had before things went awry. Perhaps explain some of the dreams you had of your relationship together, and tell them you want to get back on track to achieving those dreams together.
Regardless of why you broke up, these letters can be a great starting point for helping you reconnect with your ex and perhaps even rekindle your relationship together. When writing, make sure the words flow from your heart and you’re bound to get a response. It may take patience and persistence, but if you are meant to be together, you will find your way back to your old partner.
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